Sometimes the way I feel about this lovely man just hits me in the breath |
Mr M came home with two of the greenhouse thingies - he does like to encourage me and we prepared for the weekend. I was going to attempt to put up one of the greenhouses but the weather was against it.
Saturday we went to see Mr M's brother. spent a while talking about all sorts of stuff and I learnt a bit more about the enigma that is my brother-in-law.
Some time on Saturday there was a moment when I was suddenly made aware of just how much I care for my husband of 30+ years. I upset him you see, and when I realised was the moment that I learnt that even when you love someone you still have that power to hurt. Shan't do that again, it hurt me too much as well. He loves me enough to forgive me! Isn't that wonderful?
So what have I learnt? Love never dies, even if it becomes as familiar as a favourite chair it is just waiting to poke you in the heart and thank your stars for what you have. I've learnt that sometimes you get an engineer that has pride in his work and takes that extra care.
My thanks to Sian at FromHighInTheSky for inventing this way of keeping me writing.
3 comments:
So glad you made up!!! Yes we do have ups and downs when you are married such a long time. But it's all worth it! And Love Never Dies reminds me of Andrew Lloyd Weber's sequel to Phantom of the Opera. I loved it and the music!
A bit of a reminder does no harm at all every so often I reckon.
I'm looking forward to seeing what you grow in your greenhouses.
Have a great week!
Forgiveness is the fruit of love, and essential if marriages are going to last 30 years. I know that well. Good luck with the greenhouses!
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